I started this blog a few months ago as a way to inform friends and family about my freak thumb amputation and the progress of my recovery. Along those lines, I'm happy to report that it's healing very nicely and, other than being an inch shorter than it used to be, it doesn't seem like it's going to impede me too much. So I'll give my recovery so far a full one-and-a-half thumbs up.
That said, my intention from the beginning was for this blog to evolve from talking about the accident into more of a blog about my thoughts and observations about faith, writing, and other stuff. But as you can see, I posted my first four posts in January, and haven't posted anything for three months now. The reason for not posting is not that I've been too busy. It's simply that I've been afraid.
A couple weeks ago I attended the Festival of Faith and Writing at Calvin College. It was a great conference and I walked away with lots of ideas, inspiration and new friends and new contacts. But the biggest thing I walked away with was a conviction that it's time for me to start blogging more seriously and more courageously, and to overcome my fear and let it all hang out there in terms of who I am and the way I see things. I recognize that I'll probably lose a lot of friends by doing this, but my hope is to gain some new ones.
I've been resistant to blog about my true beliefs for two reasons. Number one is that, for whatever reason, I still worry a lot about what people might think of me. It's a basic character flaw of mine. Number two is something that further complicates number one, which is the fact that most of my friends are evangelicals, and most have political, social and theological views that are probably significantly more conservative than my own. I've had experiences with some of my friends becoming rather upset when on occasion I've shared my evolving beliefs in an honest way. So I've been afraid to tell it like I see it for fear of being judged, and also because I don't want to be the guy for whom everyone is praying that he'll see the light and repent of his liberal, backsliding ways.
Nevertheless, in the interest of full disclosure and facing my fears head on, I'm now ready to divulge the following things about myself:
- Not only did I vote for Obama, I actually applaud most of the things he's trying to do. Shocking, I know.
- While I'm more interested than ever in following Jesus down the path of faith, I kind of feel like the path we're walking down is leading me away from evangelicalism. I'm not yet sure where we're going; only that it seems to be away from where I've been.
- I no longer see abortion and homosexuality as black and white issues that must be opposed by Christians at all costs.
- At the same time that I'm becoming more and more fascinated by Jesus and what he preached and the way he lived, I'm becoming less and less interested in church and theology.
- I can no longer accept without questioning some of things I was taught I was supposed to believe over the four decades I've been immersed in evangelicalism, such as the inerrancy of Scripture, the belief that every word in the Bible is from God and not from man, or that every story in the Bible is factual and represents scientific and historical fact.
- While I still believe that God created man and woman in his own image, I also believe that evolution is real and is something that Christians should stop being threatened by.
- I'm becoming less concerned about believing in Jesus and more concerned with simply believing Jesus. I want to live as though I really believe the things that Jesus says, and if there's other stuff in the Bible that seems to be at odds with what Jesus says, I'm going with Jesus. Forget what Moses said, forget what Paul said, I'm going with what Jesus said.
And, last but not least, the one that some of you may find the most shocking of all:
- I'm not gay.
In any case, there you have it. This is who I am. I'm not sure that I'm doing the right thing or for that matter the wise thing by going public with all this, and I can't say that I actually feel good about getting it off my chest. I'm sure I've just given many of you real cause for concern. Feel free to pray that I'll see the light; I want as much light in my life as I can possibly get. That said, I hope you'll resist the urge to pray that I'll see everything in the same light that you do.
In upcoming posts I plan to give an update on where I'm at with my two book projects, in addition to blogging about a few topics I've been thinking about a lot lately:
- Is God unethical?
- Is it wrong to decide?
- Does God give a sh!t about the F-word?
- I know I'm being called away from evangelicalism, but toward what?
The time has come. It's time for me to step into what I'm beginning to sense more and more clearly is a calling to get real and honest about my struggles with faith and start to chronicle, in real time, the journey that I'm on. It's time to face my fears of "what's everyone going to think of me" and remember the two words that God spoke to me a year ago that I mention in the prologue to For Love of God and Beer.
As difficult as it is for me to push the "Publish Post" button on this, there's one thing that is giving me the courage to do so: At last count, only 11 people were even following this blog.
Maybe I can come out of the closet without most people even noticing.